What is demisexual vs asexual?

Demisexual vs. Asexual: Key Differences

Both demisexuality and asexuality are orientations that fall under the umbrella of asexuality, but they are distinct:

• Asexuality: Asexual individuals generally do not experience sexual attraction. This is a fundamental lack of attraction towards others. Asexual individuals may still experience romantic attraction, desire intimate relationships, and engage in sexual activities for reasons other than sexual attraction (e.g., reproduction, pleasing a partner).

• Demisexuality: Demisexual individuals only experience sexual attraction after forming a deep emotional connection with someone. Without that strong emotional bond, they do not experience sexual attraction. This emotional connection is a prerequisite for sexual attraction, not simply a preference.

Key Differences Summarized

Feature	Asexuality	Demisexuality
Sexual Attraction	Generally not experienced.	Experienced, but only after a strong emotional bond.
Emotional Bond	Not required for lack of sexual attraction.	Required for sexual attraction to develop.

In Essence

• An asexual person is not sexually attracted to anyone, regardless of connection.
• A demisexual person can be sexually attracted to someone, but only after a significant emotional bond has formed.

It's important to remember that these are orientations, not choices, and exist on a spectrum. Individuals may identify differently based on their personal experiences.